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Sunday, June 26, 2011

Plan of Action

- Spanking every night for a week. One week for the number of years we've been married. The purpose... to set a routine and reestablish roles.

- Each night hand spanking. Any issues needed addressed will add implement/time of spanking, try to address each issue in a timely manner.

- Timed spanking. We have watched a lot of spanking movies lately and going off of my experiences are going to do a timed amount of spanking instead of by swat for hand spanking.

Thoughts? Suggestions?

6 comments:

The Marine's Wife said...

Sounds good... Do it all!

This is She. said...

I think it sounds good, too. Will it be an easy thing for him to stay consistent with, though? I know when my husband and I have set up guidelines for me to be spanked everyday, sometimes things come up and it can't happen.. and then I become disappointed.

Maybe you should establish something for when those times happen. A discussion you can have, or something so that you don't harbor those feelings of disappointment. Just a thought.

kiwigirliegirl said...

go with it. Im not one for turning down a spanking whatever the reason.

Spanked Army Wife said...

Well we don't have children and I asked him about the consistency he said this is his way of making sure I know he is serious there will be no exceptions.

Rich Person said...

How much time are you allocating to the spanking? What do you think is a good length for them to establish a routine and roles? Some people seem to like it to go on and on....

Elysia said...

Jess, I think that "practice makes perfect- for you" and hopefully you're trying this with the knowledge that if it doesn't work, you can always adjust, change or abandon. Right? I have to agree with THIS IS SHE. Our routines often need adjustment, and the disappointment that I feel can sometimes be overwhelming if we miss a scheduled time for "some reason". The way it works for us at this point is; H decides when, where, why, how etc, as he sees fit. This is most often twice a week and can be 3 nights in a row at times. Sometimes he tells me ahead of time (like that morning) or pretty much last minute. Of course we have kids, which adds to our difficulties. So, I'm jealous of you there! ;-)It sounds like a great plan for you both! -E

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